Through Ansu, we met Nathalie Steverlynck, a
midwife from Argentina. With years of experience and hundreds of births
behind her, I felt confident she would be the right person to attend
our son's birth. Though we continued to see Dr. Paer for regular
monthly checkups, we also saw Nathalie on a monthly basis as well. Like
other midwives, she also performed checkups, albeit with a more
low-tech, hands-on approach.
Both Dr. Paer and Nathalie encouraged us to
create a birth plan,
an essential part of any planned natural birth, whether at home or in a
hospital setting. This lets your birth attendants know exactly what you
want - as well as what you would like to avoid - during your birth. To
create a birth plan, you can either obtain a form from your doctor or
midwife, find a fill-in birth plan on the internet, or write your own.
One option can be found at
www.PregnancyAndBaby.com; this form can be printed out and given to your birth attendants. I also suggest
translating it into Spanish, and be sure to review it with your attendants before the actual birth.
Perhaps the
most difficult part of having a baby at home was
not the birth itself, but the lengthy and red-tape ridden process
involved in obtaining a Costa Rican birth certificate. A number of
signed and notarized letters must be presented before the Civil
Registry (Registro Civil) - these include letters from your
obstetrician, birth attendants and pediatrician, as well as at least
one other person who can testify that he or she saw you pregnant.
Note that since
midwifery is not legally recognized in Costa Rica,
your midwife may be unwilling to provide such a letter. This is not
usually a problem, however. In our case, my husband provided one of the
two required letters from birth attendants (the other was provided by
doula Ansu Coto). It is highly recommended that you call the Civil
Registry (287-5472 or 287-5555) to
get a list of the currently required documents for a homebirth, as these seem to change on a whim.
In addition, you will probably want to check with the embassy of
your country of citizenship regarding requirements for a birth
certificate and passport. In my case, this was the United States,
which, in addition to requirements similar to those for Costa Rica,
requests verification that you spent at least five consecutive years
actually living in the United States.
School or military records can fulfill this requirement; since
these can take some time to acquire, it is suggested you make the
request for such records before the baby is actually born. (Check
U.S. Embassy for a current list of birth certificate requirements.)
Deciding to have a natural childbirth, whether at home or in a
hospital, can be a daunting prospect. I encourage you to read as much
as you can on the subject, and speak with others who have had natural
birth experiences, as well as prospective midwives, doulas,
and obstetricians. To this end, I have included some resources below that may be helpful to you.
Whatever your final decision may be,
having a baby is an amazing experience, and the birth itself is only the beginning. I wish you and your family the very best!
Written by Wendi Patrick who is the editor of Costa Rica Outdoors magazine. Wendi lives
in Ciudad Colon with her husband and son, and an ever-growing menagerie
of rescued animals.
Resources:
Ansu Coto (224-5806); Besides her role as a doula, Ansu is a certified hypnobirthing instructor, and also teaches
yoga for pregnancy and massage for babies (among other classes) at the
Gaia Center for Integral Balance in San Pedro.
Nathalie Steverlynck (837-5444) of
MamasalNacimiento.com is an Argentine midwife (also speaks English).
o
Marie Tyndall of
MamaLuvBabies.com Registered Midwife from Canada; Marie also sells baby slings and cloth diapers.
Dr. Adam Paer (288-7576 ext. 111 at Mediplaza, 208-1406 at
CIMA Hospital;
4-D ultrasound, birthing tub, natural childbirth practitioner available
as primary obstetrician and/or backup to midwife-delivered homebirth.
o La Leche League of Costa Rica (group leaders: Greta McAlpin,
592-0726; Maria Melia, 271-1686; Maria Weinrich, 761-1858; Waleska
Porras, 441-0148; and Nancy Sabean, 228-0941); For help with
breastfeeding; meetings take place monthly.
o Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, by Ina May Gaskin and The Birth
Book, by Dr. William Sears and Martha Sears, R.N. Both are invaluable
guides if planning a homebirth or natural childbirth. And for after
baby's birth, The Baby Book, by Dr. William Sears and Martha Sears,
R.N. is an all-around guide to attachment parenting and baby care.
Mothering.com; Online forums dedicated to "natural family living," a great place to connect with moms- (and dads!) to-be.
Dr. Carlos Orozco (256-0856); Pediatrician, practices both traditional and homeopathic pediatric medicine.